Sex. It’s a word that can evoke a lot of emotions. From love, tenderness, excitement to anxiety, longing, and disappointment. And yes, these emotions are as varied as sexual experiences themselves.
Looking for a way to improve your sex life? Here we will give you tips that can help your sex life.
Tips #1: Maintain physical affection
It doesn’t matter whether you are tense, tired or upset, engaging in kissing and cuddling is important to maintain emotional as well as physical bond.
Tips #2: Practice touching
The sensate focus techniques that many sex therapists use can help you to re-establish physical intimacy without feeling pressured. Many educational videos, as well as self-help books, offer variations of exercises.
Also, you may want to ask your partner to touch you in a way that he/she would like to be touched. Doing so will give you a better sense of how much pressure you should use.
Tips #3: Try different positions
Indeed. Trying different positions will not only add interest to lovemaking. It may also help to overcome problems as well. For instance, the increased stimulation to the G-spot that happens when a man enters his partner from behind can help the woman to reach orgasm.
Tips #4: Be adventurous
Perhaps you have never had sex on the living room floor. Or perhaps in a secluded spot in the woods. Now might the perfect time to try it. You can also explore erotic films or books. Even just the feeling of naughtiness you get from an X-rated movie may make you feel frisky.
Tips #5: Be sensual
Create an environment for lovemaking which appeals to all five of your senses. Focus on the feel of silk against your skin. Focus on the perfumed scent of flowers around the room. Focus on the beat of a jazz tune. And so on. Use this heightened sensual awareness when you make love to your partner.
Tips #6: Be playful
Leave love notes in your partner’s pocket for him/her to find them later. Or take a bubble bath together. After all, the warm, cozy feeling you get when you get out of the tub can be a great lead-in to sex.
Tips #7: Be creative
Let’s say you are used to having sex on Saturday night. Now, choose Sunday morning instead. Experiment with new activities and positions. Use sexy lingerie or sex toys if you never have before.