Many people are lazy that’s why the thought of spicing their sex life seems like a hard task, but it is far easier than it seems. Mind you; it is not about going online and purchasing handcuffs, whips, chains and other sex tools, that is not always necessary. There are numerous other things you can do to spice up your sex life.
Here are some of the things you can do to get you started:
Getting yourself in the right position
One of the best ways of improving your sex life is to learning new sex positions; there are hundreds of amazing that are easy to master. There are many exotic styles you can check out on the internet. However, certain positions need you to be very flexible, while other sex positions are not all that great as they look. However, you will still find out many positions that are incredible and pleasurable- whether it is mastery position or octopus. You will also find out many positions are nothing but mere variations on positions you are already familiar with: for instance, the coital alignment method is almost similar to the missionary position. And the easiest way to use these kamasutra positions is with a sex chair .
Find you man’s fetish
We all have our unique things that turn us on immensely, and these things may not be appealing to the next person. For certain men, it could be their woman being naught and talking dirty to them or a serious blow job. Well, there is nothing wrong with that. As aforementioned these are nothing serious but our fetishes. Certain things may be mainstream while there others that you can only dream of.
When it comes to men, it is the work of a woman to learn or rather find out what his fetishes are, and then do it with him is one of the best ways to improve your sex life and make it more fun and memorable for both of you. If this idea excites, then you may want to find out what some of his fetishes are: however, you need to slow things down a little bit. The reason being there some other things are too personal, and your man may find it hard to open up and so he may be so guarded about it. Be smart and take a more subtle approach and he will let you inside his heart.
Some great oral tips
This is one of the most important factors when it comes to sex. Oral sex is equally important as intercourse itself. Of course, all men love blow jobs, they appreciate any woman who can do that to them, and there are some reasons for this. One of the reasons is because blow jobs are amazing. Another reason why men love oral sex is that it makes them feel more powerful and dominant- there is nothing more that makes a man feel more of a king! Also, doing a blow job while kneeling down shows your man you are submissive, that is a scared act indeed!